Spicing Up Your Relationship: The Power of Words

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on Talking Dirty or Erotic Talk.  This in-depth course will teach you everything you need to know about how to entice your lover by learning the erotic language of seduction, talking dirty.

Erotic Talk – Learning the Language of Love

Using your mouth and tongue to communicate erotically has the potential to elevate your sexual experience to new levels!  Erotic talk sets the mood for sexual intimacy.

Why Learn the Art of Talking Dirty?

It can make your love life more exciting, creative, and fun.  It creates more intimacy and improves communication.  And since your most erotic sex organ is your brain, a great mind fuck with erotic talk is a perfect start for trying other things.

The act of talking dirty, whether it is with your long-term partner or new play date is a great way to explore new sexual scenarios because it is safe sex, sexually arousing, uninhibited and allows you to play out a scene (preview, practice and rehearse) while troubleshooting potential problems and alleviating any fears you many have.

Why Learn the Art of Talking Dirty?

It can make your love life more exciting, creative, and fun.  It creates more intimacy and improves communication.  And since your most erotic sex organ is your brain, a great mind fuck with erotic talk is a perfect start for trying other things.

The act of talking dirty, whether it is with your long-term partner or new play date is a great way to explore new sexual scenarios because it is safe sex, sexually arousing, uninhibited and allows you to play out a scene (preview, practice and rehearse) while troubleshooting potential problems and alleviating any fears you many have.

The Positive Impact Talking Dirty Can Have on Your Relationship

Erotic talk in your relationship can create:

• More intimacy
• More creativity
• More excitement
• Better communication
• A sense of playfulness

Living Out Fantasies Vicariously Via Erotic Talk

Talking dirty before or during sex can not only turn you and your partner on, but it allows you to explore fantasies together through your imagination and voice.

During fantasies, typically what men see is more important for the fantasy than touching, feeling, or partner response.  Women are the opposite. They typically focus their fantasies on the personal and emotional qualities of the partner, rather than just the appearance.

Fantasies for Men

Men’s fantasies are:

• Twice as likely to be triggered by what men have heard, seen or read
• More sexually explicit
• More physically arousing
• About having objects of desire rather than being an object of desire
• More likely to specify sexual acts
• More visual in nature
• More likely to contain details about physical appearance
• More likely to involve anonymous partners
• More likely to involve multiple partners and
• More likely to involve a variety of partners

Fantasies for Women

Female fantasies are:

• More romantic in content
• More emotionally arousing than sexually arousing
• About commitment
• About implied behaviors and thoughts
• More likely to have familiar partners
• More descriptive characters, setting, plot, & dialogue
• Often themed around tenderness
• Can include loss of self control
• Unfold slowly
• Are more focused on intimacy

How to Talk Dirty or Communicate Erotically

“Talk dirty to me, baby!”

The easiest way to learn what kind of erotic talk to try, is just to ask your partner.

You can try sensual talk that describes sensations through sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch.  You can use similes and metaphors can help build the excitement.  Similes use “like” and “as” to compare two things. Metaphors make a direct comparison using the word “is” instead.

Add sexy locations like the beach, castle, jacuzzi, desert island, parked at a romantic look-off, or a brothel.  Read erotica to each other, listen to an erotic audio recording together, watch porn, look at an erotic magazine, write erotic notes to each other or record an erotic message and leave it on their phone.

Describe a current love making session that is happening now as you experience it or talk about a past sex date you had with your partner (Remember when…) or want to have in the future (I would love to try this…).

There are lots of ways to begin using erotic talk in the bedroom to seduce your lover, enhance lovemaking, arousal and orgasms!  So, try out some of our tips today.

The Erotic Talk Video Course Sneak Peek

Today’s sneak peek video is all about Talking Dirty or Erotic Talk, a comprehensive digital course that will teach you everything you need to know turning your lover on using naughty, erotic words and phrases, available via our Certified Love Coach program!

This exclusive course on Erotic Talk includes a Narrated Multimedia Video Course and full course PDF E-book; Erotic Audios: Ava’s Hot Lips-Erotic audios introduced by Dr. Ava Cadell and performed by real people. The sexual fantasies included are: masturbation, a threesome with two men and one woman, a threesome with two women and one man, oral pleasure, anal pleasure, lesbian massage, swingers, big breasts, spanking and domination, an erotic shoe store fantasy and flashing in the car; and Soundz of Sex- The sounds of real sex and erotic talk set to music in techno, blues, pop and R&B styles. Tracks include: Sexycise, Sextrology, Kool Whip, Je T’aime, On Line Love, Voodoo of Love, The Art of Love,On Your Knees and Sic Love Blues… Plus!, you will learn:

• Introduction to Erotic Talk
• Definition & Facts
• Fantasies
• Reasons To Talk Erotically
• Sensual Talk
• Similes & Metaphors
• When
• Where
• SurREALism
• Why & Who
• Pronouns
• What
• Erogenous Zones
• Verbs
• How
• Adjectives & Adverbs
• The Formula
• Practice Makes Perfect
• Preparing to Talk
• Exercises
• Vocal Signals
• Communication Your Needs
• Phone Sex Communication
• What to Say to Him
• What to Say to Her
• How to Get Her to Talk
• How to Get Him to Talk
• Options for Erotic Talk

This video is just a small component of our comprehensive Certified Love Coach program that will teach you everything you need to know about sexual pleasure, arousal, orgasms, sexual anatomy, how to please and man and a woman, as well as how to overcome relationship obstacles and so much more.

Take a look at our Certified Love Coach program NOW to see all of the courses available when you sign up to become a Certified Love Coach!